Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Miss America....One of the Greatest American Traditions of All Time

Hello All!

Whew! I am back in Sweet Home Alabama and still floating on a cloud. Twelve days ago I arrived in Las Vegas in pursuit of a dream that I have had since I was a little girl. Two days ago I arrived home with more than I could possibly dream of.

Upon my arrival in Las Vegas, I was struck by the incredible realization of "This is actually happening....I am at MISS AMERICA!" In that moment, I remembered being 7-years-old.... sitting with my father in our favorite armchair....in my pajamas....watching the Miss America pageant in absolute awe. These women were princesses and now, here I was, one of them. The only way I can describe how I felt in this moment is to ask you to think of the exact moment one of your dreams came true, that is what this moment was for me.

The next 10 days flew by at an unimaginable pace. I cannot believe that I blinked and it was all over. But during that "blink," we had an awesome adventure. The City of Las Vegas, Planet Hollywood, and the Miss America Organization treated us like royalty as we were treated to the sights and sounds of that incredible place. We were welcomed on the red carpet during Arrival Ceremonies at PH, shot a commercial for the Miss America Sponsor-DSW, saw Barry Manilow LIVE at the Paris Hotel, put on the traditional Miss America Fashion Show, had dinner at the wonderful Buca de Bepo, and much, much more.

I spent the week with THE MOST AWESOME ROOMMATE, Miss Alaska Abby Hancock. I literally did a little "YES!" dance when I found out that we were going to be roomies. I can say without a doubt that Abby is just as beautiful inside as she is on the outside. We spent 10 days being sisters and that sisterhood did not end when we said goodbye on Saturday night. The other 52 women who traveled to Nevada pursuing a dream, proved to be the most remarkable group of people I have ever encountered. Despite our diversity, we operated with a cohesiveness that created a unique bond that I will cherish for the rest of my life. I will brag that the 2011 Miss America Class set a high bar for compassion, class, poise, and kindness.

Behind the scenes, selfless volunteers and staff, worked tirelessly to ensure that every contestant had the fullest possible experience. The Miss America staff spent countless hours planning and executing a flawless 90th Anniversary Miss America Pageant. The choreography team (Barry, Stacy, and Brian) were a BLAST!! The wonderful security staff...(Rodney, Chris, and Lewis) not only made sure that we were safe, but took time to learn all of our names and treat us with the utmost respect. The HOSTESSES....I don't know what we would have done without these precious women! They were a GODSEND! These volunteers take time away from their homes and their families to take care of us all week. While talent, intelligence, and community service set the Miss America Organization apart, the individuals who power this program elevate it to a higher caliber.

The champions of this organization, Mr. Sam Haskell and Mr. Art McMaster, embody the class that is innate to the Miss America Pageant. They believe in the values and benefits of this organization and spend every waking moment working on behalf of young ladies like me, who will be eternally grateful for their commitment to scholarship, success, style, and service.

The competition was unbelievable. The 53 contestants spent their lives preparing for this moment and it was apparent. The poise, intelligence, fitness, and talent that graced the stage last week was unparalleled. I prepared for this competition with every resource available and every fiber of my being and I was wonderfully fulfilled every time I took the stage. This moment in my life was not about the destination, but about the journey that brought me to that stage. A journey that changed my life forever.

I am so blessed to be Miss Alabama, not only for the opportunities, scholarships, and experiences that I have gained and will continue to gain, but most importantly for the people that I will call family for the rest of my life. Mrs. Nan Teninbaum, President and C.E.O. of the Miss Alabama Pageant is a second momma to me. I could never have imagined what God had in store when He put us together, but I am so grateful that he did. Mrs. Nan has given more of herself to this program and to me than I once thought was humanly possible. Furthermore, during every step of this journey, I knew that she would always love me and be proud of me, regardless my placement at Miss America. All that is asked it that I wake-up everyday and be the best Ashley I can possibly be.

The devotion shown by the Miss Alabama Board of Directors is unbelievable. I am a better person because I know these outstanding individuals. They have taught me about life, about myself, and about unconditional love and I am so THANKFUL for their presence in my life. Thank you to all of you, and thank you to Walter, Frank, Eve, Anita, Sheri, Shasta, and Deborah for traveling to Las Vegas to support me.

One thing we have in Alabama is amazing sponsors. These individuals and businesses make sure that Miss Alabama has the best of the best and feels her best. Ann Northington, Gus Mayer, and The Clothes Tree provided my wardrobe. Ms. Ann gave me the Miss America gown of my dreams, along with an amazing competition wardrobe. My interview dress came from The Clothes Tree and it was exactly what I wanted! Deborah is fashionista extraordinaire! Gus Mayer provided me with a timeless wardrobe that made me feel so beautiful as I went to appearances across Las Vegas. Also, thank you soooooo much Ms. Betty Ponder for your incredible tailoring, especially on my swimsuit. Everyone knows that fit is just as important as style and you are a master!!!!

My talent was honed with the help of individuals who gave me so much and asked for nothing in return. Billy...I can't thank you enough for your patience and attention to detail. You always challenged me to believe that nothing was out of my reach. Scott...I don't know what I would have done without you. You believed in me and that faith gave me strength and confidence! More than anything, thank you for telling me that I am a "singer".


DeeDee...you made me feel so beautiful all week! You also gave me strength, confidence, comic relief and so much more! I will love you forever!!!

Mr. Tip and Reed at One-2-One, we did it!!! You guys helped me get into the best shape of my life, while always stressing the importance of staying healthy and making your outer beauty match your inner beauty! I appreciate ya'll so much and I am so grateful for the Swimsuit Award that I can share with you. Jackhammer, you have been a true friend and have done everything you could to give me the best guidance possible. Thank you, above all, for being a friend!

I had the most wonderful time in my Miss America interview and that can be credited to Kevin, Frank, Auburn, and all of the individuals who gave their time and energy for mock interviews to help me prepare for my favorite part of competition! Thank you, all of you, for your guidance, knowledge, and encouragement!

Thank you Planters for supporting the Miss Alabama and Miss America Programs and sending Mr. Peanut Man to Las Vegas to serve as my escort! He was an absolute hit and the Peanut Capitol of the World is forever grateful! Thank you Ms. Shasta for your diligence.

I have always known and have been told several times in the past few weeks that I have AMAZING friends and family. These people love me no matter what and sacrificed so much to watch me live my dreams. Momma, you are my best friend and my strength. I will always be your Boo. Dad, you are still the first face I look for in a crowd and you have helped me become the lady I am today. Daniel, you are more than I could have ever prayed for and I am so blessed to have you in my life. Alice and Mandy...
"Well we're the three best friends that anyone could have, yes we're the three best friends that anyone could have..." We will always be joined at the heart, no matter where life takes us. Tom, Carl, Deborah, and the rest of my West Central family...you are an amazingly giving group of people and I will always be your Miss Alabama. My family and friends are an amazingly strong group of individuals and every time I am around them, I am reminded of  exactly where I came from.

 I will never be able to tell you how much it means when people travel and sacrifice and wait during visitation just to let you know that they believe in you. The Miss Alabama delegation were incredible and I am still amazed at their unwavering support! Thank you to everyone who made the trip to Las Vegas, sent encouraging notes and gifts, hosted Miss America parties, and made me feel so loved during this exciting and challenging moment in my life! Thank you, thank you, thank you!

I know this post was long...and I am sure I forgot to pay homage to several individuals who mean so much to me. I love you all and I am honored and humbled by the trust and faith you have invested in me.    

Teresa, our new Miss America, you are incredible! Your talent, beauty, and kindness represent the best of each of us and I am so proud of you! I cannot wait to follow your year and I am so excited about the great things you will do for this program! I love you Mu sister and know that you will always have a friend in me!!!!

I barely have 5 months left as Miss Alabama 2010 and that is so scary, because the moments in our life that mean the most to us, often go by the quickest. I am amazed by what this journey has given me thus far and excited about what is sill in store! I LOVE BEING MISS ALABAMA. I love waking up everyday and learning more about the amazing people who call this place home. I pray every night that I make you proud and that I can give back just a small portion of what you all have given me. Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Eternally grateful,
Ashley

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

The Chance of a Lifetime

Hello Everyone!
This afternoon, I will head to Las Vegas for a once-in-a-lifetime experience. But this journey does not begin today-it began almost 7 months ago when my dream came true and I was given the chance to spend 365 days serving this Great State and this wonderful program.
My experiences as Miss Alabama have changed my life forever and I am SO HONORED and HUMBLED to represent all of you on a national stage! I am ready to be the best I can be during competition with the invaluable guidance and support from our selfless Board of Directors and sponsors and the constant strength of my family and friends. I will be eternally grateful for all of your encouraging words, prayers, and love. I will never be able to tell you what it has meant to me.
I love you all and I am SO EXCITED about the next 11 days! Las Vegas…here I come!!!
With Love,
Ashley

Sunday, December 19, 2010

ESPN and Alabama Pride

Holiday Greetings Everyone!

I am very excited about the recently released "It's Not Crazy, It's Sports" commercial! I was very happy to take part in a commercial that describes a wonderful part of the Alabama culture-collegiate athletics! The pride Alabama natives experience, whether they cheer for the UAB Blazers, Alabama Crimson Tide, Auburn Tigers, Troy Trojans, or any team, is a unifying engagement.

I cannot tell you how many times I have seen complete strangers exchange a friendly "Go Blazers!" or "Roll Tide" as a greeting. Even the competitive banter exchanged by rival fans, especially during the Iron Bowl, has a charm and a familiarity to it that makes me smile!

These moments make me smile because they represent quintessential Alabama traits- pride and loyalty. In Alabama, each athlete that takes the field knows that he or she has a body of dedicated fans who support and are truly engaged with him or her.

I have experienced this same support! Now, let me clarify-I do not claim to be a good athlete (I'm not). I often made the team and enjoy sports, but my high school soccer coach told me, "You are not the most skilled player, but your drive and determination got you a spot on the team."

I experience this support from citizens across this state as I pursue my dream of becoming Miss America. Kind words of encouragement and a simple "we are proud of you" absolutely make my day!

In Alabama, we believe in our leaders and we invest in their success and that is something for which to be very proud! So [Insert your sports chant here], because it is a great thing to call Alabama home!

Ashley


Thursday, December 16, 2010

"I'm Still Dreaming About..." Fannie Flag...An Alabama and Miss Alabama Legacy

Greetings from the Magic City!

In November, I was afforded the extraordinary opportunity to attend "An Evening with Fannie Flagg" at the Virginia Samford Theatre in Birmingham-and what an opportunity it was!

Let me begin by saying that the book and film Fried Green Tomatoes are well-loved aspects of Alabama culture. However, while I knew of this iconic portraits of my home, I knew little else about the tremendous force that brought these experiences to life-Fannie Flagg. When I became Miss Alabama, I was enlightened!

Ms. Fannie Flagg, a former contestant in the Miss Alabama program, calls Birmingham her hometown and speaks of it with a love and appreciation that only a true native could achieve. She is an incredible force in modern literature and media and wonderful example of how an individual can defy all odds and become anything, as long as they believe.

On November 20th, I was among the fortunate audience that attended Ms. Flagg's homecoming at Virginia Samford Theatre. Not only that, I was permitted to attend a small reception in her honor before the evening began. I can say from personal experience that this larger-than-life Alabama native is one of the most endearing and friendly individuals I have ever met. While I watched in awe as she greeted everyone from mentors, to lifelong friends, to even the Mayor of Birmingham, my observations told me that she had stepped back into Birmingham as if she had never left. She possessed a warmness and familiarity that one can find in a neighbor. Again, I was giddy with excitement, just to be lucky enough to be there.

Then, we all took our seats in the Virgina Samford Theatre to listen as Mr. Jack Reiss and Ms. Flagg talked. As she spoke of her childhood in Birmingham, she described the sheer joy she experienced during her time with the Virgina Samford Theatre, her comedic approach to competing in the Miss Alabama Pageant, and her amazing journey to becoming the acclaimed author she is today. All the while, the audience and myself sat captivated, hanging on her every word. I realized that most of the individuals around me had experienced everything she described. She had shared that time with them and was so thankful for their impact on her life. My gratitude for that moment is indescribable, I will cherish that opportunity forever.

Ms. Flagg latest book is a portrait of Birmingham, The Magic City, through the eyes of a former Miss Alabama. According to The Birmingham News, Mr. Pat Conroy describes I Still Dream About You as "a love letter to the City of Birmingham and the State of Alabama." I couldn't agree more. As I read her precious story, I am enthralled by the characters and their relationship with this city that I live and work in everyday. Their backdrop is my own. Maggie, the principle character, and I share a common experience. Furthermore, it is so incredible that Ms. Flagg and I also share that unique experience which is participating in the invaluable program.

Thank you Ms. Flagg for immortalizing in your novel a time in my life and a city I will cherish forever!

With love,
Ashley

Ms. Fannie Flagg

An Incredible Story
(Photo courtesy of atrandom.com- http://atrandom.com/fannie_flagg/)

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Those who give so selflessly...

Hello All!

Today as I visited with some wonderful people at the Blue Cross/Blue Shield Annual Holiday Luncheon, I had the opportunity to thank them for their incredible support and sponsorship. The Miss Alabama Pageant has afforded and continues to grant countless women the opportunity to better themselves and further their education. This year alone, the Miss Alabama Program gave away over $104,000 in cash scholarships and millions in in-kind tuition scholarships. But this kind of offer and experience does not just appear. It is worked for everyday by individuals who believe in this program and what it represents and sponsors who understand the significant impact that this experience has a young women's lives.

The Miss Alabama Pageant, Inc. is run overwhelmingly by volunteers. The Board of Directors, Field Directors, Local Directors, Pageant Moms, Dressing Room Moms, and Traveling Companions are ALL volunteers. They volunteer their time, energy, and talent because they BELIEVE it what the Miss Alabama and Miss America Organizations represent. They work tirelessly to make participating in this program a PHENOMENAL experience. Their support is invaluable and irreplaceable.

My life has been forever changed by my participation in this program. I am a better person because of the lessons I have learned from these amazing volunteers and I would be remiss if I did not recognize their incredible gift. From sponsors, who ensure that contestants are fed and housed during pageant week or make sure that I am as prepared as possible for Miss America, to traveling companions, who take time away from their family and their lives to accompany me to every appearance-this organization is comprised of individuals who represent the very best of the State of Alabama and exude class in every instance. To them, I say thank you, thank you, thank you! Thank you for supporting not only me, but every contestant that graces the stage at the Miss Alabama Pageant. Thank you for never saying "no" and always giving more. And thank you for believing in the significance and relevance of this organization!

A very grateful Miss Alabama,
Ashley

Ms. Nan Teninbaum-President/CEO and Executive Director of the Miss Alabama Pageant

Pageant Moms-Our Support Team for Pageant Week

Mr. Walter and Mrs. Melanie Hill with their Niece Jameson-Committed Volunteers

My Incredible Family and Friends-My Source of Strength and Support

Miss Alabama's Past and Present-An  Amazing Legacy

Mrs. Kristin Coon-One of our Incredible Field Directors

Monday, December 6, 2010

There’s No Place Like Alabama for the Holidays

Season’s Greetings from the Magic City!!
The past several weeks have proven to be extremely eventful! Not only is Miss America 30 days away, but communities across this great state are gearing up for a fun and festive holiday season. It has been such a tremendous blessing to experience how this Great State spreads joy and fellowship during this very special time. One thing I have most certainly discovered is that one can still have a fabulous holiday without the fabulous holiday food (since dressing, pumpkin pie, and Christmas cookies are most certainly NOT on the Miss America swimsuit nutrition plan-lol).
I have traveled from one side of the state to another during the prior weeks and it has been MARVELOUS. I went to one of my most favorite places in Alabama,-Fairhope. I was honored to attend this unique town’s Christmas Tree Lighting and welcome in “snow” with the Christmas Carol “Let It Snow”. Fairhope is a place that is rich with culture and art, punctuated by a lovely hometown spirit!
My first official Holiday Parade as Miss Alabama was at The Summit in Birmingham. Santa, music, holiday cheer-I couldn’t ask for more.  The following week, I joined students at Hidden Lake Elementary School as they celebrated the culmination of a very successful United Way Campaign. I ventured into the service field, as I served as a waitress during their pizza party. Another exciting development is the Miss Alabama Program’s involvement with the Duke of Edinburgh’s Award Program. Several local titleholders have enrolled in this program to promote the virtue of being a well-rounded, engaged citizen and we are excited to recognize their efforts next May!!
After months of planning, the pinnacle of my month was the Miss Alabama Holiday Preview: A Benefit for Children’s Miracle Network. The show took place at Homewood High School and featured incredible talent from the Miss Alabama Pageant and the Birmingham Area. We were thrilled to be able to give a gift of $3, 255 to CMN as a result of this event. I will never be able to convey my gratitude to Scott Thorne, the performers, the Miss Alabama Board of Directors, and all of the volunteers that helped make this show a success. If you would still like to donate you can do so online by visiting https://www.missamerica4kids.org/m.aspx?i=8636EC+F61A1B3 .
Don’t forget!!! The Annual Miss Alabama Fashion show will be this week! On Saturday, December 11 at 11:30pm, attendees will get a preview of the latest fashions from The Clothes Tree, Gus Mayer, and Ann Northington, a look at my Miss America Wardrobe, and a preview of my Miss America Talent! You can still RSVP for this event by calling the Miss Alabama Office at 205-871-6276 by Wednesday!

On Sunday, I was so blessed to be with my West Central Family! They hosted a lovely Miss America Send-Off for me at the beautiful Prystup Guest House in York, Alabama. You cannot find better people than those that live in Livinston and York. They have hearts of gold and have embraced me as a part of their family. Thank you Tom, Carl, Deborah, Gretchen and all of you who have meant so much to me and helped me achieve this dream!
In addition to appearances at Alabama Power Company, West Jefferson Elementary School, Grand Bay Country Christmas, December has been filled with preparations for Miss America. I have had wardrobe fittings at The Clothes Tree, Gus Mayer Clothiers, and Ann Northington, daily workouts at One-2-One Fitness, and mock interviews with local professionals and Miss America enthusiasts. I cannot believe that Miss America is less than a month away. I cannot describe how humbled and honored I have been to have this opportunity and to represent not only a great state, but a values-driven organization like the Miss America Organization. We have been crowning Miss America’s since 1921, and 90 years later, we still seek to give young women the opportunity to become the best person they possibly can. That sets this organization apart. The service that representatives from across this nation provide to their communities is invaluable. Titleholders in the Miss America are more than titleholders, they are a positive force and example for all citizens.
Thank you for allowing me to represent all of you as Miss Alabama! I pray that I can represent the great spirit of the Alabama people and better my homestate! Thank you all for your encouragement and well wishes!

With love,
Ashley
Hidden Lake Elementary United Way Party

Alabama Power Talk Show for United Way Celebration

with our host and his wife, a former Miss West Central Alabama!

with Meghan Muncher and Hallie Grace at the MY ARTS Kids Holiday Program

West Jefferson Elementary School

Grand Bay Country Christmas Parade and Reception

with Mr. Les Prystup of the Prystup Guest House
at my West Central Alabama Miss America Send-Off

with Deborah Talley, Tom Taylor, Mayor Dubose of York, and Carl Sudduth
at the Send-Off 

Good Food!!!

Tis the Season!

One of the best people I know, Tom Taylor, my local director



Local titleholders at the CMN Benefit
(Thanks Elisabeth for the picture)

Friday, November 19, 2010

An Evening of Incredible Talent with an Awesome Mission

Hello Cyber World!
As promised, I am posting a list of the amazing talent that will be on display on November 28th, 2010 at the Miss Alabama Holiday Preview: A Benefit for Children’s Miracle Network! This incredible show will start at 2pm at Homewood High School, but if you arrive at 1:30pm you can have you picture made with Santa Claus with a donation to CMN.
As the Holiday Season rolls in, I hope we can take this event as an opportunity to remember the families that will be spending their Thanksgiving and Christmas in one of the Children’s Hospitals nationwide. Children’s Miracle Network is an advocate for these families and every penny we raise on November 28th will be donated to their mission!
And our performers are…

Ashley Davis-Miss Alabama 2010

Scott Thorne

Alexa Jones-Miss Alabama 2005 and Co-Mistress of Ceremonies 

Scarlett Walker-Miss Alabama’s Outstanding Teen 2010

Briana Kinsey-MAOT 2nd Alternate

The Jim Sawyer Singers

Jamie Langley-Miss Alabama 2007

Taylor Yates-Miss Alabama Pageant 3rd Alternate

Haley Ates-Miss Alabama’s Outstanding Teen 2008

Jaye Herrod-Miss Alabama Pageant 2nd Alternate

Homewood High School Show Choir

Liz Cochran-Miss Alabama 2009

Alison Griffitt-MAOT 3rd Alternate

Meredith Ervin-Miss Alabama Pageant 4th Alternate

Kurt Jenkins

Chandler Champion-MAOT 1st Alternate

Avery Cooper-Miss Alabama’s Outstanding Teen 2009

Jordan Burcham

Pelham Pantherettes

Miss Alabama Holiday Preview
November 28th, 2010 2pm-4pm (Santa Arrives at 1:30pm!)
Homewood High School (across from Samford University)
Admission: Free with a $10 donation to CMN at the door.

With love,
Ashley